‘Better Parenting’ is the first step to avoid a ‘Broken System’,
the second is ‘Better Structural Agreements’
COMPLETE THE ‘SMALL PRINT’
A marriage or a co-habitual partnership is probably the most complexed of all relationships, baring a religious, emotional, physical, financial and social dimension.
It will test every aspect of your life and if you do it right will enrich every aspect of your life, but if you don’t, it could destroy every aspect.
The standard antenuptial agreement do not have the ‘small print’ completed, partly due to the unpredictability of the unknown, but mainly due to ‘BLIND TRUST’ practiced by many loving parties who believe that it would be in bad faith to have well structured financial and social agreements.
Parties who then claim to have structured an ‘Out of Community’ agreement, often end up having community from the bedroom to the boardroom!
If a clearly communicated financial agreement is required, many marriages would never be concluded, most divorces will be avoided, and contested separations will be the minority.
THE FIVE STRUCTURED AGREEMENT
AN ALTERNATIVE PERSPECTIVE
Your religious marriage is based on an external belief and faith and between you and your God, no agreement should be signed with a state authority.
Your emotional relationship is based on internal trust and between you and your partner, also no agreement should be signed with a state authority.
Your physical relationship is based on respect for each other and while personal fitness should not be neglected, also no agreement should be signed with a state authority.
Your financial relationship is about your money and fair and sound financial planning should be practiced, while the necessary legal agreements should be well structured to reflect the true intentions and wishes of the parties, and provide for foreseeable changes.
Your social relationship is based on internal trust and between you as parents and your children. A co-habitual agreement therefore will establish 50/50 parenting in principle, and you as parents can focus on building a strong support network through personal and family talent and sport development to ensure a pleasurable family unity.
RELIGIOUS MARRIAGE
In support of parties who ‘Trust in the Divine to bring them together for ever’, need to clarify or investigate what they recon their responsibilities are and what falls outside their control.
Your religious belief should therefore not stand in the way of exercising sound and fair financial planning, instead give substance to your belief.
It is therefore possible to perform your religious marriage ceremony the way you believe, but without signing the state prescribed agreement in church, providing you have a separate financial and co-habitual agreement in place.
FINANCIAL AGREEMENT
Your financial partnership agreement is essential for creating a firm foundation to which additional agreements could be added, protecting and expressing all parties’ interests.
We can assist you with your financial agreements and our Alternative Life Plan Budget model could provide much needed insight on how to plan for The Unknown, The Known and The Be Known.
SOCIAL AGREEMENT
A Co-habitual partnership agreement establishes a natural right of 50/50 parenting.
Not only will it create the awareness of the importance of the involvement of both parents needed for the healthy development of children and to create unity in a family, but will minimize the risk of separation and the risk of children falling victim to the hands of vindictive family court officials during a separation, with the parents being set up against each other and one parent having too fight to see their children.
Family court officials are famous for their claim: ”We act in the best interest of the children…”, but seldom practice that.
The active involvement of a loving father in the lives of his children, is significantly evident in their development.
DON’T LET YOUR LOVE STORY
BE CHANGED INTO A CRIME STORY
NOT ALL RELATIONSHIPS LAST…
Many get married at a young age and when they start developing to their full potential, they often are not as compatible as they thought they were.
This is one of the main reasons why we promote self development from an early age minimizing the risk of rude awakenings later in life.
WHEN THINGS ARE NOT WORKING OUT
The first we promote is to try to ‘fix what is broken’ before just ‘getting out’, the second is try to ‘stay until your youngest is 7’.
A child needs both parents for role modelling and separation often results in devastating consequences for children who have not reached the age of 7.
This brings me to my personal experience with our destructive family court system orchestrated by sociopathic and narcistic court officials who fraudulently claim ‘to act in the best interest of a child’.
From apprentice attorneys to the judges, from social workers to children court commissioners and from pastors to moderators, are orchestrating a ‘sick comedy’ show, creating ‘tragedies’ to naïve believers and their families.
THE 4 STAGES OF DECEIT
1. FALSE ACCUSATIONS & IRRATIONAL CLAIMS DISTURB YOUR INTERPRETATION OF REALITY.
2. THE DISTORTION OF YOUR CHEMICAL BALANCE CAUSES ANXIETY TO RELEASE ANGER OR FEAR HORMONES WHICH
NARROWS PERCEPTION AND BLURS VISION.
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3. STAGE 1 & 2 CAUSE THE DISRUPTION OF YOUR CAREER INCOME.
4. ULTIMATELY LEADING TO THE DIVISION OF YOUR FAMILY & FRIEND SUPPORT NETWORK.
FATHERHOOD DRIVE
also offers
FAMILY MEDIATION
‘BETTER PARENTING’ CONSULTATION / WORKSHOP
- Desire & Devotion: Teaching your child goal setting and management
- Discipline: Develop and maintain strong physical health
- Determination: Develop your child’s will, establishing strong emotional strength
- Dedication: Nurturing family unity and support
FINANCIAL AGREEMENTS
- Spouse maintenance
- Child maintenance
- Securing family wealth
SOCIAL ARRANGEMENTS
- 50/50 parenting
- Developing family talent and sport skillsets
SINGLES:
Discover and develop your hidden potential to become
the ‘perfect partner’ to find your ‘perfect match’, with whom you can grow old.
COUPLES:
Personal and family talent and sport enhancement will change you to become
the ‘perfect parent’, creating the ‘perfect match’ of a healthy, loving and pleasurable support network.
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‘THE GOOD’ CAN NOT ‘SEE THE BAD’
One of the reasons why the fake empaths are ‘invisible’ to the sincere empath, is that the fake empaths disguise themselves as sincere empaths, by at first doing good to establish trust, who then will slowly start to create confusion through false accusations to create uncertainty which spike anxiety and with the increasing pressure their victim will experience, will become more and more vulnerable to exploitation for their narrowed perspective and blurred vision.
Another reason is that sincere empaths who developed neuropath ways to live in truth and honesty, have not developed neuropath ways to conduct deceit and therefore are unable to detect the inhumane and sadistic actions of the fake empath or narcissist.
Our ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLE workshops for singles and couples can guide you on how to develop your 6th sense, equipping you to identify and avoid the fake empath.
THE DECEITFUL LAWYER & THE VULNERABLE PARENT
Amidst the legal witch hunts, orchestrated by corrupt church and family law officials, I as the son of a pastor have been facing for the past 26 years, I had conducted Interveners Management Consultants, offering family mediation ,
The main role I played as mediator, was to provide protection to parents against deceitful and sadistic law practitioners, enabling parents to create a peaceful environment for the children in which they can grow to become well balance adults.
I have also been able to guide couples to enhanced their self-esteem through personal and family development, which led to the rekindling of their love to build a lasting relationship.
Stop supplying free energy to the sociopaths, they feed on it, let them die from the cold.
CURRENT MARITAL SYSTEM FLAWED
‘THE BROKEN SYSTEM’
has created a
SICK COMEDY PLAYGROUND FOR THE EXPLOITER.
While we consider our marriages to be divine, sacred and everlasting, statistics indicate a 70% divorce, 10% abusive imprisonment and 20% success rate.
What starts as a love story, often turns into a crime story during a break up, due to vindictive and unscrupulous officials who create conflict through false accusations and unjust claims between separating parties.
Some of the reasons for conflict between parties are due to them having different belief systems, low self esteem, growing apart, health neglect, money matters and poor parenting. When these indifferences lead parties to see no other solution than separation, both parties can easily fall prey to manipulation, bearing no insight of the deceitful and sadistic nature of a fake empathetic law practitioner who would fuel conflict to provoke anger, remorse and fear with deceitful claims and accusations to cause anxiety which will narrow their victims’ perspectives and open the door wider for more severe manipulation and exploitation.
When these narcistic family law practitioners would be confronted by an opposing party, the law practitioner will hide behind their saying: “I am just taking instructions from my client”.
Family law practices around the globe are infested with unscrupulous and sadistic sociopathic officials who deceitfully claim to act in the best interest of the child, while exploiting every possible opportunity to scar children emotionally, to work their physical abuse in hand, to ruin their parents financially and to cause their social maladaptation and to ultimately create new ‘Victims for the Broken System’.
BOLD MEN LEAD
A self respected and protective family man, will enjoy the respect of his children and their mother, no submission required in contradiction with Eph 5:22 translation.
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Based on a true story.
THE DECEITFUL LAWYER & THE DELUSIONAL PASTOR
It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.
Luk 17:2
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